So You've Had a Bad Day | How to Mentor Trial Attorneys to Not Fear Failure and Bounce Back After a Mistake

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Mistakes are inevitable and often determine an individual's long-term success by their ability to learn from them. Winston Churchill is frequently credited with saying, ”Those who fail to learn from history are doomed to repeat it,” although the exact wording of this quote is a matter of debate among some. Regardless, the sentiment behind the quote remains a powerful reminder of the importance of learning from past mistakes.

Young lawyers, in particular, may need help navigating through failures to ensure they emerge stronger. Trial attorneys need to understand that mistakes, when navigated successfully, have the potential to be career boosters, not career-killers. When they mentor trial attorneys well, seasoned lawyers play a pivotal role in guiding new lawyers to learn how to acknowledge and learn from mistakes. 

Why is it so important to mentor young trial attorneys?

Developing and retaining new employees has become increasingly complex, not just in the practice of law but for corporations across almost every industry. Having mentors can be an excellent asset for a young attorney; a group of people that will allow them to bounce ideas and garner trusted feedback. Mentors are pivotal in improving retention and providing support to help young attorneys grow and advance.

The Fear of Failure

Missing deadlines, saying the wrong thing, or making a bad impression on someone important are just a few of the many mistakes that trial attorneys may worry about. It’s not just professional mistakes that can impact an attorney’s career. A lapse in judgment, even in a personal setting, could lead an attorney to make decisions that may have profound consequences. 

In addition, young lawyers, sometimes called millennial attorneys, tend to see failure differently than the generations before them. They tend to constantly need to prove themselves while simultaneously being more averse to exposing themselves to uncomfortable situations that can build resilience. These attorneys have also developed a reputation for being unable to take constructive criticism well, an enormous component of overcoming the fear of failure.

However, while failures can be deeply humbling, they are also almost entirely inevitable, as it is highly unlikely for an attorney to make it through their entire career without stumbling or failing at least a few times. Rather than fearing failure, attorneys instead need a path to overcoming failure. One fundamental way for attorneys to overcome the fear of failure is to learn from the mistakes and triumphs of others.

Mentoring to Overcome Fear

Lawyers, more accustomed than others to studying history professionally, understand that prior case law impacts future case law. The same idea can be applied more personally as a way to learn from mistakes, our own and others. By becoming a student of others' mistakes, lawyers can learn from those who have experienced the same or similar issues as the ones they find themselves facing. 

More seasoned attorneys can help by modeling and sharing their failures as mentors. By sharing their own experiences, mentors can more personally demonstrate that failure is a normal, inevitable, and valuable process. Mentors can demonstrate how they learned from their failures and, in doing so, inspire younger attorneys to embrace failure as a learning opportunity that is essential for their professional development.

Failure Is A Process

While failure may be inevitable, how an individual reacts to failure is a choice. Will they come out feeling bitter and resentful, or will they use the opportunity to become a better version of themselves? An individual may not be able to control what happened to them, but they can control how they handled the failure and how they came back from it. 

Failure isn’t just a feeling; it is a process. It very often requires humility and learning to accept assistance from others. However, this process can be transformative and lead to personal and professional growth. Failure is not the end but rather an opportunity for mentorship, learning, and redemption. 

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Key Takeaways

●  Growth often arises from the moments of failure, and learning to embrace failure can be a crucial step in professional development.

●  Failure is a transformative process that involves humility, seeking help, and acknowledging one's mistakes.

●  Mentors can help build resilience in younger attorneys by demonstrating that failure is part of the journey. 

●  Mentorship is crucial in guiding new attorneys to acknowledge and learn from mistakes.

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